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Graduation

Wednesday, July 18th, 2007

Graduated 17-07-2007, and what a day it turned out to be. I was slightly apprehensive with all the silly little things that have been going on lately.
Got into Trentham Gardens and what a beautiful picturesque scene it was, well kept gardens, lakes and water features were secluded amongst hill sides covered in forestry.

Upon registry, we were handed a gold star with the Staffordshire emblem on, which is a nice piece of memorabilia. Got the gown on and had a few refreshments before we had to go in. Despite this, my mouth was becoming more and more dry as the morning progressed. Seemed to get quite lost amongst the rush of people. Ended up going in pretty much on my own which didn’t settle my nerves at all.

However, the ceremonies began and all of a sudden I felt real at ease, a huge sense of achievement came across my face, this was the day I had been waiting for, for so long. Little did I know how much I had been fretting over this day, and now it had arrived my feelings were running wild!
The rows were getting closer and closer, suddenly it was our turn to queue. I had a sense of fear that what usually happens would happen, but somehow when I stood up there queuing, there were no nerves, but actual excitement. Even though my face probably never showed it, there was a huge smile deep within me, I’m sure it never reached the surface (problem I have!) but I will wait until I see the DVD!

Shortly after sitting down it was all over, we were applauded by all the staff as we walked out of the ceremony marquee into the food marquee which was a nice thing of them to do.

Decided to go and have a family photo, what a giggle that turned out to be. Jodie, my sister has a serious problem with her eyes being closed when it comes to photos. This was no exception, one of the only times she managed to have her eyes open, mine were closed. Damn! Finally managed to get all eyes open and what appears to be a really nice family photo.
Credit due to the Photographer (name) of Tempest Photography, she did an absolute great job. Making sure everything from my hands, robes, eyes, head to my tassels were all just in the perfect position, and it was difficult for her too as people made me laugh my tassels kept moving!

After all the celebrations and many photos in the gardens (of which was really difficult posing for of course!), we decided to go down the A34 to Stafford to see what pub we could go to lunch for. This used to be my route into Uni and I recall there being ‘The Wayfarer’ just before Stone, it looks quite nice from the outside, so we went in. Oh my god, what a mistake. Never felt so bad about choosing a place to eat, really would never recommend it if you are in that direction!

Later got my car back, fully working so yay to that!

And decided to end the night off nicely with Adam, Hayley and I going up town for a bar snack and a few drinks (or many in fact)! Ended up in Chicago’s and it was a Karaoke night, never stood up despite the urges for the first time ever. I just merrily sang along to many of the songs whilst drinking the night away.

A big thanks to all my family, Anne (mom), Len (dad), Jodie (Sister), Del (Granddad) for all the support they have given me over the years, it has been a struggle at times, but you have all helped me through, mentally and financially.

A big thanks to all those at Uni too, especially Adam, Dean, Nathan, Otis and Paul. I have experienced some of my greatest moments so far with each and every one of you. I have learned a lot from you and you have helped me become what I am today. Best of luck with your future.

All the best, and many thanks.

Nick

The Weekend

Sunday, July 1st, 2007

What a weekend,

Friday:
Went into work for 6:15 so I could leave early for car looking. Left work at 11:15, totally scared as I have now been given an actual task! I think it is going to be very challenging, but that is just what I need right now to build my confidence and to prove my capabilities. Lets just hope it swings the right way!

Test drove a Peugeot 307, and it was a really nice drive and well spec’ed but there was still a Ford Mondeo to drive before I made a decision. Starting off with higher expectations on the Pug, I was soon swayed towards the Mondeo as soon as I sat in the drivers seat, all I can say is what a difference and WOW! Managed to scrape my finances together and I pick it up on Tuesday evening. 03 plate Mondeo Ghia X, cream leather, electric everything nearly. Big thanks to Mr Evans for bringing me back to the oval badge, as I nearly stayed with the V-Dubs.

Saturday:
Spent most of it being tired, but then late evening my dad and I decided to try and sort the pond out, idea is to put them in a temp paddling pool from Woolworths, and clean the pond out. Well it didn’t start off too well, ran out of time as we had to go for a meal. Left the fish in about 1.5ft of water, came back and there were 5 floating on top, DOH. Totally my fault as I was arguing with my dad and we were getting no where. Feel stupid now! Tried to revive them and we managed with one of them but sadly the other 4 died.
Meal was very nice, went to an Italian in Studley, called Carlo Ristorante (01527 853047), recommend it.

Sunday:
Spent all day clearing the pond out and throughout the day we have decided to take walls out, restructure things, and all in all not a bad day. Except that I have now managed to put a hole in the very bottom base on the pond. Need it to dry before we can re-fibre glass it, and with the current weather we could be waiting a long time. So god damn!!!
Just about to go out and see Shrek 3, yay, I seriously need a wind down to the weekend, been so hectic and upsetting along the way.

Role on the week ahead.

The Bramley Cottage

Tuesday, June 19th, 2007

… is the new Inn!

Great atmosphere, nice drinks at a good price, great beer garden and two IT Boxes…

…oh and did I forget to mention, how many nice ladies… all I need now is to pluck some courage from somewhere to hand out my number at least! Been having eye to eye with one all night, and what did I do… nothing, damn fool!

Grrrrr!

Last few days…

Tuesday, June 19th, 2007

Here I am again, making a complete fool of myself!

I stupidly went on a walk with Sophie on Sunday, got jealous, ended up not talking and pretty much officially saying goodbye for the 3rd time I think now. It’s still really difficult but I need to get over her, I know I can do much better, just hard to believe at times. But only intentions I have now are to get my money off her and give her the money I owe her asap for my camera, need a fresh start and now is the time to look forward, be positive… ish…

I have much more important things to worry about though at the moment, my Granddad had a fall this morning in his kitchen, was lay on floor for a while, it was only by chance that he was found. He has possibly had a minor stroke now, how much shit does one man have to go through, he deserves better than this, always been fit and able, so to see him like this so sudden is unbearable. He is in a special ward at hospital for tonight, gets the usual million tests in the morning and we will see where that takes us. It may lead to a permanent residence at our house as it seems that he may no longer be able to look after himself.

Best wishes to the man who has inspired me so often, who’s been a Granddad and best friend for many years now.

Mom seems to be getting it hard at the moment too, with Granddad being ill and with Yuko, our Japanese student returning home after some 10 months with us, she seems to be really down and always tearful. Sometimes I can’t help myself and say stupid things, it puts a big smile on her face, but it brings floods of tears too… not sure if that is a good thing or not, but I am trying. Things will pick up, I am sure.

Have to be up in 5 hours, so I guess I should be going to bed, before I get myself the sack… Sorry Phil!

Going through changes

Wednesday, June 6th, 2007

The last few months have been my most challenging moments of my life so far, there have been many up and downs and most of the time I have felt so low, so for those that have been around me, I am sorry and thank you for all those that have helped me through.

Things are finally on the mend;
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Welcome

Wednesday, May 9th, 2007

Welcome to my new blog. This is now the third generation of my blog, and will hopefully give an insight into my life.

This time around, I have full intentions of updating it on a regular basis, so lets see shall we!